Contentment

You know that feeling you get when you first fall in love ?
Weak at the knees,stomach churning ?

Contentment isn't about fireworks,weak knees and flutteriness.Which is why some people completely fail to realize that despite its more subtle charm,contentment is worth a whole lot more than short-term passion.And being content with someone doesn't mean you're no longer "in love".It means you are truly and deeply in love in the best sense without any inverted commas!

You can't change people

Suppose you're natually tidy.I mean really neurotically tidy . Imagine you ended up with a partner who liked to spread their possessions about and felt comfortable with clutter. Would you become a messy person to keep them happy?

If you are not actually tidy you might be wondering what the problem would be,but if you are one of nature's tidy people you will probably be thinking that would be a struggle,and an unreasonable request; and you'd be right .

The fact is that you can't ask people to change, and even if they wanted to they couldn't do it.They can modify their behaviour,but they can't change their personality.

No one is perfect,eveyone can be irritating from time to time in a relationship.But you are looking for someone whose irriating habits are worth putting up with,not for someone who you can mould to your personal requirements.

Love

Love.It's simple isn't it?
Love can be tried and tested and stretched its limits.
We can feel it but not know how to show it.We can struggle to find it or unsure we've found it or not.And sometimes we think it's still there ,but we can feel it ebbling away and don't know to restore it to its full glory..

It's almost always linked to contentment,which frankly is what most of us ultimately want in life.Imagine ourself in an old age for a moment.We're sitting in the sunshine next to our partner ( who is also your best friend,confidant and lover ) and everywhere is the sound of laughter and happy voices.It sound like the ending of  the most unwatchable.But deep down, would't you like to feel you were heading for moment like that ?

It all comes down to forming strong and loving relationships that will stay strong in our life.

Thank you

We all get battered and  bruised by life,that's inevitable.Of course,it's the scars that give us character,so in long run we did gained from our bad experience. Things happend for good reason.
But in the short term, we may need to recover before we re-enter the fray.

So, do yourself a favour.Go away and hide somehere while you lick your wounds.Enjoy your friends and your family,and wait until you've recovered a bit before you start looking for a new partner.That way you can both see each other as you really are,and start your relationship the way you want to continue it.

Here, I would like to thanks someone whom I deeply cherish for the rest of my life . Thanks.

Be Yourself

Isn't it just so tempting to reinvent yourself when you meet somebody new who you really fancy?Changing behaviour is all fine and good.But changing our basic personality that won't work; and we'll tie ourself in knots trying to do it convincingly.

So be ourself .Be open now to someone we love. If you fake,you'll attract someone who belongs with a person that isn't you.

"Might as well get it all out in the open now "