Suppose you're natually tidy.I mean really neurotically tidy . Imagine you ended up with a partner who liked to spread their possessions about and felt comfortable with clutter. Would you become a messy person to keep them happy?
If you are not actually tidy you might be wondering what the problem would be,but if you are one of nature's tidy people you will probably be thinking that would be a struggle,and an unreasonable request; and you'd be right .
The fact is that you can't ask people to change, and even if they wanted to they couldn't do it.They can modify their behaviour,but they can't change their personality.
No one is perfect,eveyone can be irritating from time to time in a relationship.But you are looking for someone whose irriating habits are worth putting up with,not for someone who you can mould to your personal requirements.
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