If we feel guilty, we are in no position to extend love properly towards other people.
When we feel guilty,what is that feeling all about ?Me, that's what it's about. How do I feel, what is going on here for ME ? It's entirely self-centred,and seeks to take the focus away from the object of our guilt ;the loved one we let down some way.
The past has gone,we can't change it (This was shared by someone whom very special,thanks) . If there's anything we can do to put it right.please go and do it .If there isn't we can either accept it and learn the lessons.We should not wallow in it what is past .
"In order to love people usefully we need to be focused on them and not on ourself "
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